My boyfriend still on dating site
I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts. We'be been living together for a year now so if a girl says yes let's meet up ... and if i bring it to light, I feel i have to be ready to call it all off.. It feels surreal, I cannot comprehend how he can act normal taking me to family dinners go shopping and asking out other girls on badoo and registering on sites like toyboy warehouse.A man committed to you would rather lose his arm than cause you despair. If this happens in the beginning of a relationship, it’s actually quite common so don’t freak out.No need to be reactive especially when he’s not really active on there.They are constantly on guard for something to go wrong and checking a dating site for the guy they are dating is part of their ritual. When a man is committed to you he is committed to contributing to your happiness as well.
Or, in other words, when to stop going out with anyone else.
You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.
Your motivations for checking up on this are worth looking at, though, because it gives me the feeling that either something inside you feels like you don’t quite trust this guy or that you don’t trust the relationship you’re in to have trust as a quality (and so you’re always checking and testing because you don’t have that trust to begin with…
At such times you have a strong desire to be with this person and no one else – if lucky, your date feels the same way about you too and things naturally progress to an exclusive dating.
However since every dating equation involves two variables as human hearts, having the same exact view about the current status of a relationship is unlikely.
It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?